[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.decus.sk\/sedime-so-zenou-v-restauracii-a-prichadza-ucet-je-v-poriadku-ak-ju-nechame-zaplatit\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.decus.sk\/sedime-so-zenou-v-restauracii-a-prichadza-ucet-je-v-poriadku-ak-ju-nechame-zaplatit\/","headline":"Sed\u00edme so \u017eenou v re\u0161taur\u00e1cii a prich\u00e1dza \u00fa\u010det. Je v poriadku, ak ju nech\u00e1me zaplati\u0165?","name":"Sed\u00edme so \u017eenou v re\u0161taur\u00e1cii a prich\u00e1dza \u00fa\u010det. Je v poriadku, ak ju nech\u00e1me zaplati\u0165?","description":"Ak ste mu\u017e a sadnete si so \u017eenou do re\u0161taur\u00e1cie \u010di podobn\u00e9ho podniku, je spr\u00e1vne, ak sa do zaplatenia \u00fa\u010dtu anga\u017euje ona? Ak je to jej vlastn\u00e1 iniciat\u00edva, tak to…","datePublished":"2018-03-22","dateModified":"2023-04-28","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.decus.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.decus.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/188853cc08cfc4af3f5ef42e51d7aa754653be0300e41daf30a10471d44d4592?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/188853cc08cfc4af3f5ef42e51d7aa754653be0300e41daf30a10471d44d4592?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"decus.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.decus.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a288068_w16526_t1527004893.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.decus.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a288068_w16526_t1527004893.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.decus.sk\/sedime-so-zenou-v-restauracii-a-prichadza-ucet-je-v-poriadku-ak-ju-nechame-zaplatit\/","wordCount":450,"articleBody":"Ak ste mu\u017e a sadnete si so \u017eenou do re\u0161taur\u00e1cie \u010di podobn\u00e9ho podniku, je spr\u00e1vne, ak sa do zaplatenia \u00fa\u010dtu anga\u017euje ona? Ak je to jej vlastn\u00e1 iniciat\u00edva, tak to vyzer\u00e1 by\u0165 v poriadku, ale aj tak. Mu\u017e tento moment pova\u017euje trochu za tr\u00e1pny. Nast\u00e1va ur\u010dit\u00e1 chv\u00ed\u013ea, kedy mu\u017e nevie, ak\u00e1 reakcia by bola spr\u00e1vnej\u0161ia. A do toho ten pocit, ak na v\u00e1s pozrie \u010da\u0161n\u00edk alebo barman ako mu\u017e na mu\u017ea a vid\u00ed, \u017ee ste nechali plati\u0165 partnerku, no s\u00fa to popravde pre mu\u017ea trochu zm\u00e4ten\u00e9 pocity. A nevraviac o tom, ak by sa jednalo o v\u00f4bec prv\u00fa sch\u00f4dzku. \u2022 I ke\u010f sa mo\u017eno n\u00e1jde p\u00e1r vypo\u010d\u00edtavcov a pr\u00edsavn\u00edkov, ktor\u00ed tak\u00fato slu\u017ebi\u010dku uv\u00edtaj\u00fa pr\u00e1ve\u017ee ve\u013emi radi a \u010dasto, ale to u\u017e vrav\u00edme o extr\u00e9mnej\u0161om pr\u00edpade. Vr\u00e1\u0165me sa tak k slu\u0161n\u00fdm mu\u017eom a k spomenut\u00e9mu momentu. Sme zm\u00e4ten\u00ed, preto\u017ee zm\u00e4ten\u00e1 je aj doba, ktor\u00e1 sa neust\u00e1le men\u00ed. V star\u0161\u00edch filmoch vid\u00edme hlavn\u00fdch hrdinov, d\u017eentlmenov. Tak\u00fdto mu\u017e pom\u00e1ha svojej obdivovate\u013eke i s najban\u00e1lnej\u0161\u00edmi vecami, v\u0161ade jej d\u00e1va prednos\u0165. Vzorov\u00e9ho mu\u017ea sme si predstavovali ako \u010dloveka, ktor\u00fd \u017eene otvor\u00ed dvere, zavrie za \u0148ou dvere, prisunie jej stoli\u010dku, podsunie jej jed\u00e1lny l\u00edstok, no a samozrejme \u017ee zaplat\u00ed tu\u010dnou sumou. Mu\u017eov k tak\u00e9muto zm\u00fd\u0161\u013eaniu nevychovala mo\u017eno len telev\u00edzia, ale vlastne aj zm\u00fd\u0161\u013eanie ich otcov, dedkov, m\u00e1m, star\u00fdch m\u00e1m, skr\u00e1tka k tomuto modelu sa ich sna\u017eila tvarova\u0165 i spolo\u010dnos\u0165. \u2022 V 21.storo\u010d\u00ed sme ale zasa vychov\u00e1van\u00ed k tomu, aby sme brali do \u00favahy emancip\u00e1ciu. Dne\u0161n\u00fd poh\u013ead spolo\u010dnosti je in\u00fd a nov\u00fd filmov\u00fd hrdina by vyzeral asi takto. \u017denu by nechal otvori\u0165 dvere, prik\u00e1zal by jej aby na\u0161la vhodn\u00e9 miesto k sedeniu, v\u00fdber jedla by trval asi hodinu, no a na z\u00e1ver by pri\u0161la tr\u00e1pna situ\u00e1cia (taktie\u017e hodinov\u00e1), kto zaplat\u00ed \u00fa\u010det? Aj pojem d\u017eentlmen sa tak u\u017e zmenil, alebo d\u017eentlmeni sa rad\u0161ej vytr\u00e1caj\u00fa. Dnes by zaplatenie \u00fa\u010dtu mu\u017eom mohlo znamena\u0165 asi to, akoby svojej partnerke povedal, \u017ee je jeho majetok, alebo nesamostatn\u00fd tvor, len ak\u00fdsi doprovod, \u017ee m\u00e1 st\u00e1\u0165 iba v kuchyni. Ale to sme t\u00fdm predsa v\u00f4bec nemysleli. Ako teda reagova\u0165 v tak\u00fdchto situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch? \u2022 Zrejme z toho nerobi\u0165 ve\u013ek\u00fa vedu a necha\u0165 to na n\u00e1hodu.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.7\/5 - (13 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Sed\u00edme so \u017eenou v re\u0161taur\u00e1cii a prich\u00e1dza \u00fa\u010det. Je v poriadku, ak ju nech\u00e1me zaplati\u0165?","item":"https:\/\/www.decus.sk\/sedime-so-zenou-v-restauracii-a-prichadza-ucet-je-v-poriadku-ak-ju-nechame-zaplatit\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]